Tuesday, September 08, 2009

9-29-09

That's when we'll get to meet our new little baby girl. I had a doctor's appointment this morning and after looking at the results from my last ultrasound, he is inducing me on the 29th for "fetal macrosomia" aka "big baby syndrome." Brian is getting the biggest kick out of it and kindly razzing me about it. My doctor is very surprised that she is measuring big. I've only gained 19 pounds so far this pregnancy, so he is wondering where I am hiding the baby. I get an ultrasound next week to check her size, but the 29th should be the day. My girls are really excited. Eliza wrote it down in my planner for the 29th. She wrote: "baby girls comes to the family." Cute.

Needless to say, it's only three weeks away and I am NOT ready! I have to get it in gear and get lots done to be ready. It is going to go quickly!

After getting home from that we had lunch, then Ellie, Hattie and I trekked over to USA Baby. I wanted to look at diaper bags. They had a couple of brands I wanted to look at. I think I may have narrowed it down. The one I really like by OiOi seems to only be available "down under" or for VERY expensive here. I really love the JuJuBe ones (especially their changing pad), but I think I might get the Sling Tote by Fleurville. We'll see what I think tomorrow. LOL.

This evening Brian had his bishopric meeting and I had a meeting for stake YW, so we got a sitter and went our separate ways.

Better get back to nesting!

Monday, September 07, 2009

Catching Up

Friday:
Regular day with Eliza and Libby at school. Had a date night. Took pictures for a friend's little boy for his baptism invitation. Went to Ajo Al's for dinner--got to split a meal again which was plenty, especially with the chips and salsa. Did some errands.

Saturday:
Major work/productive day. We moved Libby in with Eliza and moved Hattie in with Ellie. It took much of the day. And it was a lot of work--going through clothes and sorting and situating, etc. We are STILL trying to find a twin bed that will work without spending too much. So Libby is sleeping on the floor for now. She doesn't mind thankfully. Now we have the mess confined to one room: Hattie's old room and the baby's new room. We put all the boxes of clothes in there and it's a disaster. We'll have to sort through all the clothes right away. After seeing all the boxes I told Brian that I just want to throw everything away and when they need clothes at the next size, we'll just buy them. Of course, I wouldn't do that, so I think I am just going to narrow it down to like one box per size. I think that will minimize things. In the evening when I'd had enough cleaning, Brian took Eliza and Libby to my brother's house where they watched a soccer game and I took Ellie and Hattie to a store out in Cave Creek to look at diaper bags. I tried looking for a purse that would work, but with a diaper bag you don't have to fish around for things and there are spots for things a mom needs. I looked at some JuJuBe diaper bags and liked them, but then I looked on-line and found some OiOi ones I really liked. Now I need to go see them in person to make sure before I get one. I know I drive Brian crazy at my indecisiveness when trying to find a diaper bag. I just want to get one that isn't too "diaper-bag looking" but that is really a diaper bag. Not an easy task.

Sunday:
Brian had a meeting before church, but I was able to get everyone up and ready and to church on time--about 10 minutes early even. We sat next to Chrystalyn and her kids and took up two side rows--all the longer middle rows were taken. It went well though. I was busy the entire time, but the girls did well and we didn't have to go out. My mom and I tried to put together some activities that I can rotate through so they don't get tired of one thing week after week. This week was darling composition books my mom made for them to write or color in and I also brought stickers for Ellie and Hattie to put in theirs. They enjoyed that. Our ward is going to be good, but it's always hard the first few weeks. Just doesn't feel the same without some people there who are now in the other ward. I subbed for Debbie's Sunday School class and Relief Society was so small! After church we came home and it got a bit harried after a couple hours. But we survived. Brian was at the church till 4, but I think after things settle down, it won't be so long. We went to my parents' for dinner, then Brian left to go back to a fireside, so the girls and I hung out there for a while before coming home.

Monday:
Brian went in to work, so we just stayed home. Eliza had a birthday party to go to, so we took her to that. I had Libby and Ellie both upset that they didn't get to go to a party, let alone a swim party. Libby complained that her friends never had swim parties even though they had pools, etc. etc. It went on and on!!!! While she was gone we had lunch and played some games. We also went to Wal-Mart and bought some nursing pads--just trying to get ready. The rest of the day, we stayed at home. Eliza and Libby played a math card game that Kamille taught them and I started teaching them how to play Solitaire. Brian came home, we had dinner, then family home evening. We were contemplating what to have for treats when my mom texted to see if they could bring FHE treats. For sure! It worked great since Brian was called to go give a blessing to someone in the hospital. After dessert we did bed time.

Speaking of bedtime...when are kids just happy to say goodnight and go into bed on their own? I feel like bedtime is an all night process! Hattie has been the hardest. She likes to get up in the night and she won't go back to bed unless I lay down on the floor next to her crib. The floor doesn't mix well with being 9 months pregnant. She is a mamma's girl, too, so she doesn't like it when Brian goes in there in the night. Or she'll get out of her crib in the middle of the night and go turn lights on in the girls' rooms, play with their stuff, get stuff out of the freezer and put it in the fridge, get into Eliza's lotion, etc. So when we moved the rooms this weekend, we put Hattie in a regular bed. It's been a pain the past couple of nights getting her to stay in when we put her to bed. Tonight was good, so hopefully she'll get in the groove. The problem is keeping her from getting up in the night! Last night was like three times. Hopefully we can curb that soon. Then Eliza always comes in during the night. I can't figure out how to stop that either. Ellie and Libby rarely ever do, so that is good. I am just scared to add a new baby to the mix. I hope I can do it.

Thursday, September 03, 2009

Comfy


I am not sure why Hattie has had trouble with bed the past few nights. She likes to crawl out of her bed (even when there is no airplane). So tonight after putting her in over and over again, we just decided to let her do her own thing. She just stood by her bedroom door for a while, then ended up laying face down on the floor. She was quiet, so I let her be and she ended up falling asleep. Doesn't look too comfy to me. I'd better go move her, but I had to get a photo first!

Chicken Adventure #1

Today it was nice not having anywhere really to go. My friend Jenny brought her little boy over to play while she had a lunch thing to go to. The girls had fun playing with him. The rest of the afternoon was pretty normal--school pick up, dinner, etc.

Tonight was our night to go over and take care of the chickens. On the way over it started to rain pretty good. It slowed down by the time we got there, so I thought we'd be okay. Then the wind started. Eliza and I went into the coop and got the eggs (3). Then we were going to do the water and food when it got even windier and the two big flattened cardboard boxes that were in there (complete with shredded newspaper clippings on top) flew up and blew right into us. I got a face full of newspaper shreds. So I was kind of stuck. I put back what I could, then put my foot on one of the boxes and waited for Brian to come help. We got those put back and secured down as best we could, then we got the food and water done. Luckily it won't be so hard in the future as long as it's not so windy! Good thing Brian only got one picture at the beginning and not of the boxes flying across the coop.

Wednesday, September 02, 2009

We'll Figure This Out

Today was a long day. I took Eliza and Libby to school, then drove to the stake center to meet the other ladies in the stake YW presidency for a temple trip. Brian's sister, Laura, was kind enough to watch Ellie and Hattie all day while I was gone. THANKS!! Ellie had fun over there. She didn't want to leave when I picked her up and on the way home she cried, "I wanted to sleepover at Tommy's." and "I want a tent like Tommy has." Funny. The temple trip was fun. We did a session, then went to Mangos on Main St. for lunch. After we got back, I picked up E&H, then E&L at school and headed home.

Not having been home all day, I felt like a tornado (Brian said it was just a microburst not a full blown tornado) had gone through--mostly in the older 3 girls' rooms. On Saturday we are going to be switching things up again with room arrangements to get ready to move Hattie into a big bed and free up her room for the baby. But Eliza and Libby couldn't wait so they started putting things in their new room and it's now a mess. The are gung-ho at the beginning of a project, then kind of fizzle out leaving a bigger mess than what we stared with. I try to take a deep breath before walking in there, knowing it'll be taken care of on Saturday.

Tonight after dinner, Brian headed to mutual, then to extend several callings after. I wish I could say that the night at home went gloriously. It didn't, but we'll get there. Things went pretty well until about 7 when I needed to start putting Hattie and Ellie down. An unnamed child was just being difficult and made the whole rest of the night miserable! I got Hattie in bed, but she kept coming out of her room. Two times for an airplane and another 7 times to try my patience. Ellie did great. Eliza was good, too. Oops--did I just give it away who was making me earn my badge for the night? FINALLY, she got to sleep. Maybe next week, we can have a smooth night! LOL. I am learning better and better what works with her though, so that is good.

A Letter

Dear Mr. Air Traffic Controller,
Could you please cease all flights over our house starting from 7 PM until 7 AM? It is really affecting Hattie's sleep.

Thank you,
Erin


Seriously--I wish I could vote on flight plans at night time. Whenever a plane flies over, Hattie will sail over the side of her crib and run out with her hands over her ears. She'll said, "Airplane scare me." Kind of cute. Kind of sad. Kind of annoying! And planes fly every night. Ugh. I try to convince her they are far away, but she doesn't care what I say at night. During the day she'll hear a plane and say, "Airplane far away." But not at night.

Tuesday, September 01, 2009

Survivor

I think I survived my first night with Brian having a meeting. After everyone was just about asleep--and I was worn out--I thought, "I get to do this all over again tomorrow night!" and "What happens when I have a newborn in the mix." Yikes!!! I guess I'll figure it out as I go. ...or just have to have a helper come take care of the baby while I do the rest! LOL. NO--I'd rather hold the baby and let someone else do bedtime.

Anyway--yesterday we hung out at home. Ellie and Hattie got to play with Kari's girls while she had a doctor's appointment. We got the girls from school and had Carson come over for a while. Brian BBQ'd some burgers for dinner, so that was yummy and fun. We had family home evening and ice cream for treats.

Today we cleaned up the house from the daily morning tornado, then we went to Hobby Lobby with my mom to get some knobs for the dresser that is going in the baby's room. I can't wait to get it in there! I turned out so beautiful!

We hurried home, got some rolls out to rise for dinner, then picked up the girls. We had a good afternoon (meaning no major bickering of the girls) and made dinner--chicken pasta salad, rolls and a yummy raspberry salad.

After a quick dinner, Brian went off to his meeting and I did baths and started with bed at 7. I need to get faster at it. Libby didn't do great so that is a reason, but I was putting kids to bed till like 9:15. I am beat! Time for bed.

Sunday, August 30, 2009

Changes

This morning we got up and ready for church. Sacrament went well--no one had to go out, so that is always a treat. We had our combined 5th Sunday meeting and then Sunday school. We had a great lesson about temple marriage.

After church, we came home, had some lunch, home teachers came, then Brian left to go home teaching and then to a meeting. My parents and Brian and Kamille came over for dinner. We enjoyed a nice dinner and visiting. After that we left for a meeting at the stake center for boundary changes for four wards in our stake. They realigned all the boundaries and there are still 4 wards, but things were made a little bit more balanced. Our Bishop stayed the same, Ken Brown is one counselor and Brian got put in as the second counselor. Please pray for me. LOL. The stake executive secretary called for an appointment on Tuesday. Brian and the YM president were actually at the same meeting on Tuesday night and he got a call too. So honestly, we totally thought it was to be a Ma and Pa on the pioneer trek they are having next summer. I knew they were getting started on the trek, so with both of them getting appointments, that is what we figured it was for. So on Wednesday night we went to the stake center for our appointment. He took Brian in first, so when he did that, I was like--I am thinking this is not just for the trek. Pres. Wagner came out and got me a couple minutes later and asked me a couple of questions, then asked if there is any reason that Brian wouldn't be able to serve as 2nd counselor in the bishopric. What do you say to that? I did say that I was concerned about sitting in church with soon to be five kids by myself. I guess that wasn't reason enough as he still got the calling. After we left his office, we just kind of drove around aimlessly, wondering how this would work out with our family. We figured he would need a suit, so we tried to find one. Luckily, Chrystalyn just happened to be getting rid of some of Jared's, so Brian was able to get those. Score. We had gotten a sitter, so we both grabbed a bite to eat, we got Libby's b-day gifts, then came home.

So knowing that the wards would be realigned, I assumed that we'd lose Vistancia from our ward. So I've been quite sad that I would be losing most of my friends from the ward. About a year ago I lost my good friends to West Wing ward and now my other good friends I had are in a different ward. That will be tough. I will survive, but it's still hard. A plus is that my sister-in-law and her family are in our ward now, which is a huge blessing seeing that they'll be able to help me on Sundays during sacrament meeting. I am going to need it. Hattie will be my challenge for sure. I hope I can survive. I have faith that Heavenly Father knows what we can handle. Thinking about it, I am worried about how I'll do this--keep a balance between taking care of stuff around the house, the girls, a new baby, my calling and having a life. But I just have to trust that it'll work out.

Our girls were funny when we told them this afternoon about Brian's calling. Eliza was trying to guess--she said, "Is he going to be a primary worker??!?!?!" She really wanted that. I told her no but that he'd be in primary a lot. They are pretty excited about it. Tonight when Brian had to go on the stand, Eliza said, "Bye Dad!" I thought--that's about right! Then she said, "Does that mean Daddy is getting old?" Cute. After the meeting tonight, he was set apart as a high priest, then set apart in his calling. My parents came, along with his parents and Jared and Chrystalyn and their family. He said everyone he talked to was supportive and everyone I talked to was giving me their condolences. So it's been a long Sunday and now the week begins!

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Chickens

While Brian and Libby were gone, we tried to have our own fun. Friday night we had dinner at home, then went to Cold Stone for Ellie's "reward." Ellie and Eliza opted for cotton candy ice cream with sprinkles and Hattie got vanilla with M&Ms.

We came home and got the two little girls to bed and Eliza stayed up to watch The Wizards of Waverly Place movie on Disney. I was so tired I feel asleep.

This morning, Hattie greeted me at 5:15. Grrrr!! So it's been a long day. We got up and ready, then we headed over to a feed store to pick out chickens. My SIL Chrystalyn kind of headed up a little venture for Brian's siblings--mostly for us wives and Laura. We are going to have chickens for eggs at his parents' house. So today was the day to pick out the chickens. So we got there and there were two cute little puppies roaming around, so--if you know my two little girls--I was holding one and my niece Sara had the other. Luckily the chickens were in cages! While we were up front paying, one of the employees got out a HUGE--probably 3 feet long iguana--from a cage for the kids to see. Ellie and Hattie both went over there and petted it!!!!!!!! They are terrified of a tiny dog but will pet the giant iguana. Weird!!! I finally put them both down and got down low with them and let the dog come close and they did pretty well with that--both ended up petting them. We went over to Brian's parents' and dropped the chickens off and checked out what we have to do on our designated day. After I had left, Chrystalyn called and said one had already died! Heat stroke from the transport and such. And the one Eliza picked out had a bald spot--which the store people told us was molting--but it wasn't. The other chickens were picking on it and it continued with this group, too. So they took both back for a refund. Chrystalyn was able to find 7 more chickens from someone in Brian's parents' ward--which were cheaper and better, so we got those, too. We'll have more eggs than we need, but we are hoping to sell the extras. It'll be some work, but it'll be good for the kids and good for "food storage" if needed.

After the chickens, we came home--Eliza had Maddie and Katie come play and then Kari brought her girls to play while they moved. They had fun playing and it passed the day pretty quickly.

Jump Rope

Thanks to some tech-y friends, I was able to upload the video of Eliza jump roping. Enjoy!

Friday, August 28, 2009

Libby's 6th Birthday

Friday was Libby's 6th birthday. We started out with donuts for breakfast. That is always a hit. After the girls went off to school, I dropped Ellie and Hattie off at Terri's while I did one visiting teaching visit. Then we came home and baked some rolls, then headed to Karolyn's. She had a few new people over from the ward for lunch. After that, we stopped by Brooke's and Hattie got her very first haircut. Yes--she is 2.5 and is just now having her first haircut. I wanted it evened up and it's not a darling bob. It looks so cute on her! She loved getting it done, too. Ellie was so sad she couldn't get hers cut, too. She is funny.

(not sure why her head looks HUGE in this photo)



From there we went home and picked up the popsicles and took them into Libby's classroom for her birthday treat. She had a sub, but it worked out well. She was cool about. Originally I had arranged with her teacher to come after the PM recess and have them outside. But since it was SO hot outside, they had recess in the classroom, so we just had them in there after recess was over. She didn't mind that Ellie and Hattie were there--in fact they sat right next to Libby and had popsicles, too. I was actually thrilled that I didn't have to go out in the head with the treat. It was such a hot day, I was so hot and sweaty and miserable!!! Libby quietly enjoyed passing out the treat and I think was a bit embarrassed when her class sang Happy Birthday very loudly complete with "cha cha chas."


After school when the girls got home and Brian, too, we let Libby open her gifts. She got a new lunch bag. She wanted one with a pocket on it to put the little notes that we put in her lunch. We also got her Catch Phrase and a super soft reading pillow which she loves.


Around 5, Brian left with Libby to his parents' cabin. It was a reward from her bedtime chart and also for some birthday fun. Unfortunately he forgot the camera, but they had a great time. That night they had dinner, dessert, watched Ratatouille, played Clue and read. Brian said that Libby tried to let him win the second game of Clue. Sweet girl. This morning, they got up at 8 (lucky!), had Pop Tarts, played trains in the playroom, watched part of The Bee Movie and went up to Flagstaff where they watched trains go by, walked around downtown and had lunch at the Downtown Diner. They stopped at Jenny's and played with Isaac for a bit, then went back tot he cabin, finished the movie, then headed home.

Tonight after dinner, she got to have her cake. I let Eliza be the photographer, so we got some "artsy" photos. Oh well!



I think she had a great birthday weekend! At age 6, Libby...
--loves games
--loves to read, especially Amelia Bedelia and Junie B. books
--loves to do Waldo books or search-and-find books
--has a tender heart
--does her chores really well
--likes to help
--is very particular about the clothes she wears--is into "soft" shorts and rotates between 5 or 6 t-shirts. We won't discuss her Sunday outfit.
--is very particular (stubborn) about her hair...right now she'll only wear it with a clip on the side. I used to be able to do ONE ponytail in the back. I dream of doing two ponytails or curling it or a braid. One day...


Happy birthday, Libs!

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Early Release

I survived the first early release of this school year. This morning, Ellie, Hattie and I hustled to the post office and Wal-Mart, then it was nearly time to pick them up from school. After pick-up it was a hectic day at home. It seems like I just cleaned up after everyone all day. I had wanted to take them swimming, but they chose other things (e.g. not to do their chores, etc), so we stayed home. When Brian got home, we picked his car up--hopefully for the last time from the mechanic--then stopped at Kohl's then home. Eliza and I went to Leslie's to visit her and her new little baby. She is a doll!!!!!! Love the new baby smell!

In other news--I don't want to jinx ourselves, but I think it's been almost two weeks since Ellie has had bathroom issues or we've had to clean out underwear (TMI?). That is HUGE and it has been WONDERFUL. We do a chart with her (I know--everyone has a chart but Hattie) but it has been working and she gets so excited about it. Tomorrow she gets an ice cream cone and let me tell you that is more than worth not having bathroom accidents or issues with her. It's only been a year and a half that we've been working on it, don't you think it's time?!? Now we get to move on to Hattie. Not sure I'm up for it after Ellie.

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Weekend

This weekend was busy!

On Friday after school, my parents came and got Libby for her birthday sleepover. Libby wanted McDonalds for dinner, so she had that and my parents got something else. Then they went goofy golfing. She had a great time doing that and she beat my dad apparently.

It was warm outside, so after she got an ice cream cone. The next morning she had pop tarts for breakfast and then got to go shopping for her gift. She took a while to pick something out (my mom gives a better recap on her blog) but finally decided on some creative activities, two books and a movie. She had a great time and loved having their full attention.

On Friday night, Brian and Eliza went on a little campout. Eliza earned it on her chart, so finally she got to redeem it. They had to take Brian's Civic and he was really missing his truck!! But they had a fun time. They camped on Schnebly Hill Road. They had cheesy hot dogs for dinner and s'mores. For breakfast they had scrambled eggs, then packed up and went to his parents' cabin for a bit. She wanted to go to a museum, so they went to the Riordan Mansion in Flagstaff and took a little tour. She really enjoys things like that and this was no exception. The Rough Riders were there, too, so they enjoyed seeing them. They got lunch at the Galaxy Diner on Route 66, then headed home.







On Saturday while they were gone, Ellie and I went with Hattie to birthday party she was invited to, then went to Nanci's and I took pictures of a friend of hers and her daughters. That evening we went to the ward talent show. Eliza decided fairly last minute that she wanted to do a jump rope routine. She is so brave! She was nervous, but she does so well in those situations. She did her own little routine to one of Joe Satriani guitar solos. She did great! I wanted to upload the video, but it's a touch to big to download and I don't know how make it shorter!




The rest of the talent how was fun....these two little brothers totally entertained us by dancing to Thriller. And Bishop and his family's band never ceases to impress!






Sunday was a typical Sunday. It felt weird not teaching Sunday school! My friend Debbie just got called to teach the class just older than mine and she asked me to sub over the Labor Day weekend, so I'll get to keep my feet wet, which I am excited about. Sunday night we went to Brian's parents for Sunday dinner. ...had a good roast and mashed potatoes and rolls. We made pizookie for dessert.

Monday was back at school for a new week. I didn't have anything planned, so I just picked up from the weekend, which was nice. Today I had a dr. appt. He said my stomach measurement was textbook, then they did an ultrasound and the baby is measuring 35 weeks and 5 lbs. 9 oz. I am a little nervous that I'll have a huge baby! I am curious to see what the doc will say at my appt. in two weeks. I am thinking I might only have 5 weeks left now. I'd better get in gear because I am not ready!

Tonight was crazy busy. After dinner Brian jumped his car to start it (yes--makes me wonder what the $300 repair was in Prescott), then dropped it off a mechanic. Then we hustled him out to a meeting, then the girls and I went with Eliza to audition for the stake musical which is coming up in November. She did great. The lady in charge said she for sure would have a singing part, so now we need to get her a pioneer outfit to wear. I think she is excited!

Friday, August 21, 2009

Behind

I kept meaning to get on the computer and update this, but I was either too busy or too tired! Let's hope I can remember what all we did this week.

School is going well for Eliza and Libby. Eliza had her first spelling test--they do a pretest on Thursdays and if they get a 100%, they don't have to take the test on Friday. Eliza was excited to get a 100 on the pretest, so she didn't have to take it this week. She was sad not to get the class job of "zookeeper" in her class. She was teary about it on Monday night. I felt so bad for her and wanted to cry right with her. Brian thought I was silly and said she has to learn she doesn't get everything she wants at school. That is true, but it still was sad! I think she is over it now. I have been worried about her doing her reading homework--they have to read every night. Before school started, she would say that she didn't like reading, etc., and it was like pulling teeth to get her to read. To help that, Brian decided he would read with her every night and that has been going great. She looks forward to that time and is excited about reading. They finished one book already this week, so on to the next!

Libby is enjoying school. I got to go to lunch with her today. She eats her whole lunch, but doesn't save the best for last! She eats everything and then her sandwich is last. I sat with Eliza for a minute, then went out to recess with Libby. I about melted in the heat. She had fun playing, knowing I was watching her. She got her first "note" on her behavior chart today. She has to miss 5 minutes of recess on Monday for talking!!! I was quite shocked actually since it was Libby! I guess around her peers she is quite chatty. I am glad though. We chatted about it when she got home and hopefully that will be the last note. I think it will be since she has to miss recess and just for the fact that she didn't get a stamp on her chart.

Ellie has played a lot of dolls this week. She loves to be the mom. She is so sweet and says the sweetest prayers--always remembering people in her prayers. Last night the oldest 3 were playing dolls and Eliza and Libby were arguing over who had what doll accessory. I overheard Ellie say, "Jesus wants us to be kind." So cute.

Hattie has said some funny things this week. We were out with my mom one day and we stopped in a store and my mom had to use the restroom first. So before we went in we said she would be doing that. We walked in the store and not quietly, Hattie said, "Gramma--you have to go potty?" Then when we were done at the store (but still in the store), she said, "Gramma--did you go potty?" It was pretty funny. That same day she said, "My daddy's at work. He's my friend." Darling. Another thing--Ellie was crying about something while we were at Home Depot the other day. Hattie said, "Ellie, take a deep breath." She is also cute when she gets a compliment or when someone gives something to her. My mom came over this week and told Hattie that she liked her dress. Hattie said, "Thank you!" --very animated and cute. It made us laugh. And Ellie gave her a toy or something and Hattie said, "Thank you so much. That's so nice!" She can be so cute. But not so cute at her 5:45 wake up. One night this week she got up at 12 and didn't sleep again until 2. She just laid in her bed with her eyes open. I laid next to her to see if she would fall asleep--I did, she didn't! Plus it was torture on my back!

Let's see what else...Brian got his car back home from Prescott Valley. He just had the basic fixed to get it home. Now he is just going to try to sell it. I had a couple meetings on Tuesday night--I am at the point in my calling where you wonder how you'll ever have time to do everything. I do this in every calling I think, then I get into a groove and figure it out. I do know from my last calling though that as I serve, my time is enlarged and somehow I have time to do everything. On Thursday night a couple friends and I went to Cold Stone with Leslie to celebrate new baby who's coming this next week. The new Cold Stone is open right by us now--dangerous!!!! It was fun to eat and visit. We were inside at first, but it was freezing and were shivering, so we moved outside and about melted, sitting there chatting so long. Tonight I went to the park to help my niece with volleyball--her school tryouts start on Monday. She had two other little friends there and we just did some basic skills stuff. We stopped on the way home for a caramel apple at Rocky Mtn. (it's inside the new Cold Stone--did I mention dangerous?!), then came home.

This week I took my 3-hour glucose test. I didn't have to lay down this time like I did last time, but the first time I went back after drinking the stuff, the lab lady said I looked pale. Happily, I got a call today saying the results were normal. What a blessing. Terri had a fun back to school brunch at her house on Thursday--lots of moms eating and visiting. Lots of kids playing, too.

Anyway--this has gone too long. I post some pictures tomorrow for those who don't like to read!

Oh--and this week has gone much smoother. We have used the techniques in that book and it has gone well! Yay!

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Lots

Updates from the rest of the week:
Thursday:
picked up dresser for the nursery
went to in-laws for swimming at night

Friday:
Went to Nanci's. I got a bunch of her maternity clothes to see me through the end of my pregnancy. Yay. I think I might survive now. It has felt so good to wear something different. I feel like I've been rotating through the same 3 outfits. She also showed me a new NuSkin product. Tempting, but I'll probably have to wait a month or two.

Found out I "failed" my glucose test, so I have to go in and do the 3-hour one. I held it together long enough to get off the phone with the nurse, then I cried. Big bBaby! It was just like one more thing I didn't need this week. I had to do the same thing with Hattie and it ended up being negative, so I am hoping for a repeat of that this time.

Brian had a scout campout, so the girls and I had a girls night. After dinner and after Ellie and Hattie went to bed, Eliza, Libby and I watched the Samantha movie (American Girl) and had popcorn and M&Ms. The movie was really good and we had fun watching and eating. Bedtime went well except I went too late (midnight) and Hattie summoned me at 5:35. We have been trying to get her to sleep in a little bit more. Usually it's 6 AM, which is still too early. We even put a sheet and blanket over her window hoping that would help, but no. It hasn't. Grrrr.

Saturday:
We hung out at home--colored, watched Samantha again, had lunch, etc. Brian got home a little after lunch. He had a good camp ut except for the fact that his Land Cruiser broke down. I asked if he had an ax he could take to it while he was there. It just stopped. So they had to leave it in Mayer. So Saturday afternoon, we all had to go back up there, meet the tow truck and have it towed to a shop in Prescott Valley. They can't look at it until Monday, so we'll have to go back up and get it early this week. This has been such a thorn in our side! We don't know what to do with it--just sell it for like nothing or he's looked into doing Cash for Clunkers, so we'll see about that. It's just a pain! We got home and were able to get a sitter for a little date night. Brian loves me being pregnant because I can't hardly eat anything at one sitting, so we just get a meal and share and it's plenty! I didn't even eat all of my 1/2 portion. I'm sure that will change soon. So we had Chevy's for dinner--love their salsa! We went to Barnes & Noble and relaxed and read a bit. I read quite a bit in a book that I want to buy. It's called The Explosive Child. Now before you judge me (or my kids), I have to explain. This week has been really hard. Probably three nights this week, we've had trouble with one child in particular and I've been desperate about what to do. It's been awful. Lots of tears! In my researching, I came across this book and when I saw it at the bookstore, I picked it up and read some. It is great. I was excited to try it out as I was reading. The hardest part about reading it was admitting we have an explosive child! I think all children are that at some point and/or over certain issues. The premise is that there are some who aren't flexible and when things don't go their way, they flip out and can't see beyond that and it ruins the rest of the day/night or whenever it is. And it's not all issues she reacts like this. I think the skills can be applied to all kids. Basically you have three plans of attack when wanting to deal with one of their triggers (could be getting up and ready in the morning, clothing choices, doing homework, meal time...etc. The book gave several examples of what might trigger your child.) So with anything, you either have Plan A, B or C. Plan A is for things you are adamant about and won't budge. You just don't allow it and a negative reaction will probably occur. Plan C is to not object to a child's request. It's kind of like choosing your battles. But then you have plan B. It's a bit extensive, but it's a great way to discuss it with your child and figure out a plan that will make both of you happy. Brian and I tried some aspects today and it has seemed to work well. Ideally, you'd be proactive and talk to your child "not in the moment" and try to come up with a solution before the issue comes up. Anyway...I am going to order the book and keep trying his approach.

We had a gift card for Cold Stone so we shared one of those, too. We discovered it's cheaper to get the biggest size and share it (there was plenty) than to get two separate ones. Duh.

Sunday:
Didn't get enough sleep again. LOL. We got up and ready for church. Sacrament went well. I got released from my Sunday School calling. I taught my last lesson for them today. Kind of sad! They were such a great group of kids and I'll miss teaching them each week. We had a good afternoon. My parents and brother and his family came over for dinner. Pork loin roast, mashed potatoes and corn. Yum. And Kamille's famous treats--they were SO good.

I left for a stake youth council meeting. So my new calling begins! We are in charge of a lot of things coming up, so we'll have to jump in with both feet right away.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

So Far So Good

School has been going well so far for Eliza and Libby. They both still enjoy their teachers. Libby tells us ALL about her day and what they do. She knows who everyone is in her class, where they sit, etc. She is so sweet and cares about people. This week her job is the paper collector. Eliza has met a new friend in her class whom she really likes. I don't enjoy pick up time--it's so hot and they are so tired and hungry when I pick them up. I park across the street now and go get them from their lines and then we go back to the car, so it's not too long, but it's scorching outside.

Today after pick up, we went up to Anthem to look at a dresser I found on Craigslist. It was darling, so I paid for it and we'll go pick it up tomorrow since it wouldn't fit in my van. Now I just to find a twin bed so I can put Hattie in with Eliza.

Last night I had a training with the stake presidency for my new calling. Talk about intimidating. Most everyone was nervous to answer any questions--me included! I blabbed my way through any questions the stake president asked and I'm sure he was thinking, "Good thing she is just the secretary!" LOL.

This morning my mom came over and we dusted off our supplies and made some bread. We took a little hiatus over the summer, but I'm sure with school, we'll be regulars again. I think it was like riding a bike--we got right back into it and it turned out good. And my house smelled divine! Ellie showed up to "help" when it was time to form the loaves so she could have a sample, but Hattie wanted to help me the whole time. I guess I have another bread maker to train!


(Don't you love her outfit? It's either a swimsuit or a dress or skirt.)

We took a little field trip to Target--my mom had to get something and I bought a dry erase eraser for Eliza. Then my mom treated us to lunch at the food "court." It was good!

Monday, August 10, 2009

1st Day of School

Today was a bittersweet day as is every first day of the new school year! I always think about this quote when it comes to the beginning of the year:

"Being a mother means that your heart is no longer yours; it wanders wherever your children do."

So true. This morning went well. Everyone got ready smoothly and we were able to leave in plenty of time to take pictures and get to school. Eliza had picked her outfit out on Saturday and Libby just said she would decide this morning. And she did! I am so grateful it went smoothly and that no one complained about going. We went to their classes--Libby's first--and met her teacher. We got everything out of her bag and looked around a bit. We told Libby we were going to drop Eliza off but that we'd be back by to check on her. She wanted to go with us. So she did. We went to Eliza's room, found her desk and got her all situated. She got right to work on the word search at her desk. She said she had butterflies, but she did well. Libby didn't say she was nervous, but I could tell she was. Just a flushed face and had that nervous look. This day always tugs at my heartstrings! It's so scary sending them out into the world where there are more influences and kids who aren't always nice, etc. But as Brian assures me, they know what is right and will do well. We left Eliza's room and went back to Libby's. By then there were more students and she sat at her desk and got to work. We said our good-byes and went back to wave at Eliza and then back to wave at Libby one more time. I am waiting on pins and needles to hear how today goes!

I am sad some of the pictures are blurry but they are still cute.






After dropping them off, Ellie, Hattie and I went to Wal-Mart to stock up from being gone, then we came home and are just trying to pass the time until pick up!

OK--so pick up took a while since all K-8 get out at the same time. The girls were so hot when I got to the front of the line to pick them up. I felt so bad. They both had a good day though and said their teachers were nice. I am glad their day went well!

Sunday, August 09, 2009

Articles

For the plane ride, I printed a bunch of articles which ended up being really good. I found them at the BYU Family Expo website. Here are ones I read and enjoyed and there are also a ton more there that are really good.

Building Confidence/Self-Esteem in Children/Teenagers

Accentuate the Positive

Parenting Children and Teens in Positive Ways that Matter

Other transcripts...

For the podcasts, I went to iTunes podcast page and searched for LDS. There were a bunch there. My favorites were the Seagull and Cricket ones where Steven Kapp Perry interviews someone each week. They were entertaining.

Stake Conference and New Calling (again)

Here are some of my favorite thoughts from the adult meeting of stake conference last night.
--We show our gratitude by our works.
--1st Corinthians 10:13--we won't be tempted (or challenged or given more adversity) than we can bear.
--We will have the strength to meet any challenge we are presented.
--Be meek and lowly of heart. (Meek= stands in awe of God's creations, remains silent even when accused, teachable, not casual towards things of an eternal nature) (Lowly of heart= comes when we realize what we caused the Savior in His suffering, having remorse that we have hurt others, complete submission to His will)
--To love is to create; to hate is to destroy
--We should embrace challenges of life with greater gratitude
--We should view challenges and adversity as an opportunity for growth.
--Get on your knees and ask for help. He wants to help us.
--Talked about Michelangelo and how he wanted to learn to draw, but was asked to draft, sculpt, cast, paint and to be an architect. He was willing to learn and try new things. In regard to callings we are extended, we shouldn't say, "I am not ___________ (e.g. a nursery leader and primary pianist, etc.). We accept and do our best. That is humility. We can't tell the Bishop what we can or can't do. We can explain a situation if we think there is a conflict, but then let the Bishop decide. If we don't accept the calling, we are breaking the covenant.
--All ordinances we are part of help us become like our Savior.
--If we look at our lives as an act of creation and that we are being molded, it will affect every decision we make.
--Heavenly Father gives revelation to parents in regard to their children.

Before the meeting last night, a member of the high council wanted to meet with me. He tried to get hold of us this past week, but we were gone, so we didn't meet up until last night. But I was called to be the secretary of the stake young women's presidency. It definitely came out of the blue (just as I was getting going teaching my Sunday School class). But change is good, right? I am excited to serve in that calling--something totally new.

Today we had the 1 PM session. It was weird since we are used to going at 8:30 and not having time to do anything before. We made it to conference and enjoyed it. I am always glad for the adult session because I can get a lot from that meeting and can take notes, etc. In the Sunday session, I am trying to keep the girls reverent so any bit I can hear is a perk. It was a good meeting though. There were two young kids who spoke--they both did so great. Sweet little Kylie P. was bearing her testimony and she fainted though. I felt so bad for her. She was looking a little weak and pale towards the end and I looked over at Brian and we wondered if that would happen. Luckily her mom could tell she was struggling, so she went up and was there in time to catch her. Poor girl. The one thing I took from President Wagner's talk was to be more specific in my prayers. I always think I am, but I am going to do even better. He said to say exactly what your desires are and to pray for each child by name for specifically what they need and you need. I am going to try out that challenge/promise. I need help and I need revelation in regard to them.

After conference we came home. Eliza and Libby played well together and I made brownies (used my friend Kari's recipe for homemade brownies with frosting. Yum!!) with Ellie and Hattie. They love to help and to lick the beaters and the bowl! We had spaghetti for dinner, followed by dessert. The girls got their baths/showers and I put Hattie to bed. Then Brian gave Eliza and Libby a father's blessing for the start of school. I think the girls were excited to have a blessing before starting school tomorrow and I am grateful Brian does it each year. It makes me (and hopefully them) feel more at peace. Brian also gave me a blessing, so I appreciated that.

After the girls were in bed, we got as much done to pack their lunches and I wrote little notes to put inside. I think I get just as anxious and nervous as they do (probably more) and would love to be a fly on the wall all day!

Saturday, August 08, 2009

Home

We pulled in our driveway around 9 this morning. On the front door was a welcome home sign and all around the house were signs welcoming us home! They girls were glad to see us--like surreal to them--like is it really you!??! Abbie our sitter did a fantastic job and took excellent care of our girls and house. It was nice for them to have a couple other sleepovers and we are grateful to those who helped, too. We unpacked some and showed the girls the souvenirs we had brought home for them. They showed us the fun things they did this week.

So today we just played and enjoyed being with the girls. Hattie wouldn't let me out of her sight and I spent most of the day holding her! She gave me lots of hugs followed by a kiss, so that was cute. A funny thing she has been saying lately that I wanted to record is that when someone does something wrong, she'll say, "_____________ (insert name) is in Trimble." She thinks that is the word for trouble. It's very cute.

This afternoon Brian had a leadership meeting as part of stake conference, and after was the adult meeting. We didn't feel like getting another sitter for the girls since we had just been gone for a week, so we traded off. I went to the 6 PM meeting and Brian came home with the girls. The meeting was good. I heard a lot of things that I needed to hear. I'll have to record some of my favorite quotes/thoughts tomorrow. I need to get to bed! It's been a long couple of days.