Saturday, October 31, 2009

Halloween


Luckily I was feeling better tonight so I could help out with the Halloween festivities. The girls were pretty excited about getting their costumes on. I got some better pictures than last week. Ellie didn't want me to curl her hair this time--so she had straight out of the bath hair.









Bags my mom made.

We walked down and visited with some of our neighbors for a bit--Ellie and Hattie scored some pizza which was good since they didn't eat much dinner. Another set of neighbors did a haunted house and have been working on it for several weeks. All night Eliza said she wanted to go in, but wouldn't. Finally after we had been home she and Brian went down and she did it. They told the people inside that it was a little girl, so they were easy on them, but she liked it. Brian said it could have been pretty scary if they went all out.

When it was time for trick-or-treating, I took the girls around while Brian sat our front to hand out candy. Ellie got tired out pretty quickly. She said, "My neck hurts from trick or treating." Funny girl. So we went back and by then, Brian was across the street sitting with a couple other sets of neighbors and they all handed out candy together. I sat with Ellie and Ruby while Brian took Libby and Hattie to more houses. Eliza went around with a friend's family. Libby and Hattie filled up their bags! I had a great time visiting with the neighbors. It was a fun night all around.

Now that Halloween is over...guess what that means?!?! Start up the Christmas music!! Can't wait!

Friday

On Friday morning I took the girls into school. Brian stayed home and helped a guy from our ward put in the dishwasher. I am so grateful to have a dishwasher now! I had taken it for granted before. Later in the day, we did some errands--Costco and Wal-Mart. The rest of the day was pretty typical....

We decided to get a sitter for a couple of hours while we went out. We just went to Payless to use the 50% off coupon from Oprah. I didn't realize it was off your entire purchase, so that made it all the better. As Brian was sitting there with Ruby he said he didn't think he had ever been in Payless that long his entire life. We were there a little while. We saw my aunt with two of her daughters there and she held Ruby for a while and even fed her a bottle. I ended up with a pair of shoes for me--they were only $5. I got Libby a pair of church shoes. Those were the splurge at $10, but she really needed some whether or not they were on sale. I got Eliza a couple pairs for Christmas and I bought a fun little hat. I've wanted one for a while, but haven't been willing to spend the money on it. It was a good deal being half off and I had a gift card from a couple Christmases ago, so I figured I could justify that! We also went to Target and browsed around before coming home.

This morning I woke up with a TERRIBLE headache. I didn't get any of the pre-headache symptoms like I usually do with migraines, but I did have to run to the bathroom once. Ugh. I even had a good night's sleep (two in a row!). Ruby slept from 7 until 4:30. Nice. I was planning to take Eliza to her early 8 AM soccer game and was actually looking forward to it, but Brian ended up filling in. He took Ellie and Hattie thankfully. I stayed home with Ruby and Libby. Libby was a big helper with Ruby. I was on the couch and Libby listened for Ruby to wake up. When she did, she just held her until she got too fussy. I fed her, then Libby helped out more. When Brian got home, I went back to sleep and tried to sleep it off. It was slightly better. I just took it easy all day. Brian had to go to the stake baptisms--he took Eliza and Ellie. Luckily Hattie was pretty mellow and watched TV and I drew pictures with Libby. By the time Brian got home I was feeling much better.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Song

Tonight I was driving to the grocery store to buy some things the girls need for Halloween festivities tomorrow at school and the song "It Won't Be Like This For Long" (Darius Rucker) came on. I thought it needs to be Brian's and my theme song right now. I looked up the lyrics and my eyes starting stinging with tears...

Here is a video of him singing it...makes you enjoy the moments--even the hard ones. Seems like there have been more hard lately, but hopefully we'll look back and laugh and that "it won't be like this for long."

Halloween Fun










So lately I've been trying to think of ways to help Libby feel special and important. I'm not sure if it's having a new baby in the house or what, but she has been a bit harder than normal. So one thought I had right after I had Ruby was to do a little Halloween get together with a couple of her friends. It wasn't the best timing after just having had a baby, but I just felt like it might be something to help her feel important, so it was worth it. So with the help of my mom, we've spent this month brainstorming things to do and getting things prepared. Today was finally the big day of the actual party. She just invited three friends--two of whom were able to come. Sadie and Jillian were the lucky guests!

When the girls arrived, we had printed off a cute Halloween coloring page for them to color until everyone was here. Our first activity was making a glittery pumpkin. I got small, foam pumpkins from Hobby Lobby and they painted on glue then added glitter. They turned out so darling!

Our second activity was to make ghosts. They dipped nutter butter cookies into white chocolate, then added mini chocolate chips for the eyes. I thought they turned out so cute and they are so very delicious...think peanut butter and chocolate! Next we made witches wands (chocolate covered pretzels). Once they dipped them, they added Halloween sprinkles. While those were setting up, they had dinner. I made mummy wraps (crescent rolls wrapped around hot dogs) along with chips and juice. The last thing was painting nails...I did orange with black dots on Sadie and the opposite on Jillian. Libby didn't want hers painted tonight. After that they ran around outside until their moms came. It was a fun party and I think they all enjoyed it! When they left, they got to take home their "crafts" in their goodie bag. I had my mom make trick or treat bags from some cute fabric I got. Inside we also had put a few things--Halloween bowl, pencils, a card game and some button covered ponytails.

One Month


"Grandpa--are you serious!?!?"


Today Ruby went in for her one month appointment. She was 8 pounds and 22 1/4" long. I don't think we'll ever know what her real birth weight was. She was 7.2 at her last appt. so her dr. says she is gaining well, but if she was really 8.1 at birth, she would be emaciated by now because she hasn't gained. Anyway...he said she is looking good. She got one shot today.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Sleeping Baby and Other Randoms

I've really been trying to savor every moment with Ruby. She might very well be our last child, so I'm trying to not let her grow up too fast. Today I went in her room to check on her and she looked so cute sleeping in her bed. I had to take a picture.


I read this article today and thought it was really good. "Why is Coveting a Killer?"

We bought a new dishwasher today. It won't be here until tomorrow or the next day. I've really missed having one lately. I have to do two to three sinks full of dishes a day to keep on top of it--I won't miss that for sure!

I didn't think it was too fair to go through a Halloween not being able to have chocolate. It keeps me out of the girls' candy bags though! Lately my treat of choice has been anything caramel. Market Pantry caramels, caramel sauce, etc. My favorite lately has been Mrs. Richardson's butterscotch caramel sauce over the Safeway brand of pralines and cream. YUM!!! Safeway's ice cream is really, really good. Speaking of food, Brian made a late night run to Taco Bell the other night after one of my late night meetings. I had left without dinner and there really wasn't anything to eat. They had a couple new menu items that I thought were really good...I had a Black Jack Taco and a New Chicken Burrito.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Random Pictures



Here are some pictures of Ruby's room. I had fun doing it. We used the same crib we've used for all the other girls--it's been a good one! My friend Rachel made the crib bedding. I love how that turned out. We bought the dresser from Craigslist and it started out white. Leslie's husband Kory painted and stained it for us. I added new knobs and i LOVE how that turned out. I added a few owl touches--the vinly owl I bought on etsy, and I stitched an owl and "framed" it in an embroidery hoop. I also did a little owl collage on wood. That was so fun and is one of my favorite parts of her room. We repurposed the frames that were in Hattie's room--I just covered them in different paper and used a different flower at the top. I also love the prayer rug my grandpa made her. I gave him a swatch of the fabric bedding and he couldn't have matched it any better!


When Terri took pictures of Ruby a couple weeks ago, Eliza wanted her to wear this, so I snapped a pictures of her in the dress (which was a little big!).

The other day, Eliza had Ruby join her in her bed while she read. She loved sleeping on the pillow!

Ruby's Blessing



Today was Ruby's blessing day. I was a little worried about getting everyone up and ready and on time by myself. ...and trying to time it right with Ruby's eating schedule so she would be content during her blessing. We got all ready and left around 8:30 so I could feed her a bottle and get her in her blessing dress before church started. We got to church and Ruby was hungry, so I fed her a bottle. SHE WOULDN'T/COULDN'T DRINK IT. I am not sure what the problem was but we tried for like 25 minutes and she didn't drink any of it. I am not sure if the hole in the nipple was not working or too small or what, but I was so frustrated! And there wasn't time for me to go feed her. So we got her dressed anyway and tried to feed her more. I knew it wouldn't be good during her blessing, but there was nothing I could do. Brian did a great job on her blessing even though she cried the whole time. The people in the circle were my dad, his dad, his granddad, his brother Danny, my brother Brian and our bishop and Brother Brown. Ruby looked so darling in her blessing dress. She wore the gown that my dad was christened in when he was a baby. He was Catholic and he and his siblings were all christened in this dress, so that was so special that she got to wear it for her blessing. I got her bow from etsy, and I just love it.







(note to self: call Brooke and get a new hairstyle!)

Today was also the primary program. Unfortunately Libby wouldn't even sit up front. Oh well. At least she did it during the practice. Eliza and Ellie did well. Ellie was so funny to watch--she really got into some of the songs. I told my mom that I think she forgot she was up in front of people because she had a little attitude singing. Then I guess--I didn't see it--but two of the primary presidency counselors told me after that Ellie and Bryson--the boy who was standing next to her kissed! They faced each other and puckered up. I asked Ellie later and she smiled and said they did. Nice. Guess we'll have a good story to tell when she is older!

After church we came home and changed clothes, then went to my parent's for lunch. Brian met us over there later, then we went to his parents for dinner. It was a good day all around.

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Primary Program Practice & Trunk or Treat

Friday was early release again. After picking up, we came home and had lunch. Then the girls had to do three chores each (Eliza and Libby). Libby was the first one to do them and did them without complaining. I took Libby over to Carson's for a play date. The rest of us were just home the rest of the afternoon. In the evening, Eliza, Libby and Ellie had a practice for the primary program that is tomorrow. Since Brian is over primary, he went, too. They practiced the program a few times and fed the kids pizza for dinner. Brian texted me and said that Libby had actually said her part and did it. A miracle!! Even if she doesn't do it on Sunday during the actual program, the fact that she did it every time they practiced was enough for me! Brian said she was very quiet, but I am so amazed and glad that she got up there and did it! That is huge for her.

While they were gone, I took Hattie and Ruby grocery shopping. Ruby started being fussy at the beginning, so I had to hold her and try to shop and push the cart one handed. We survived, but it wasn't easy!

This morning Eliza had a soccer game. They didn't win, but Brian said she played really well, especially defense. I stayed home with Ruby and Libby. We met at his parents after that and did our cleaning/moving of the chicken coop duty and checked out beds for Libby. Brian's mom had one that will work, so today we got it all set up and got a mattress, so she is good to go!

Tonight was our ward trunk or treat. This year for costumes, Eliza was a 50's girl. She was going to be Taylor Swift, but we had a hard time finding a wig and a dress. Libby was a hula girl. Kind of. She wore jean shorts and t-shirt with a flower on it. She did wear a shell necklace, so that was an addition from what I thought she would wear. I was a little embarrassed thinking that people probably thought that I didn't get a costume for her. Believe me--we tried!! She wanted to be a hula girl and that is what she picked out to wear! Ellie was Aurora (when she wore the blue dress), although everyone thought she was Snow White. (P.S. Snow White has a yellow skirt on her dress.) And Hattie was Tinkerbell. She has been telling everyone for the past month, "I be Tinkerbell for Halloween." And she has been wearing the costume around for the past few weeks and loving it! Ruby wore a little Halloween sleeper. Eliza thought she looked like a boy, so we put an orange flower in her hair. The night started out with the traditional chili dinner (hot dogs for the kids), then they had games. Bishop and his family did a haunted house that was pretty good I hear. There were strobe lights, so I'm sure that would have done me in! I also had to watch the little girls who would be too scared. I think Eliza only made it through the first room and then screamed to come out! LOL. After that, they loaded up on candy going around trick or treating. That is always a fun activity and a fun night!

I need to take better pictures on the real Halloween, but here are some from before the trunk or treat.




Friday, October 23, 2009

End of Week

Last night my cousin Jodi came over to watch my girls while Brian went to mutual and I visited another ward's Young Women in Excellence. They did a cute star theme and did "Star Dazzle Awards". A member of their bishopric was the emcee and for each value they had an "envelope" and the girls who did their project under that value were announced as a winner in that category. Then that girl came up (down the red carpet they had made) and told a few words about her project. Then each girl got a little star award/trophy. So darling! And they served star shaped brownies with various toppings they could drizzle on top. I was so amazed at the projects these girls chose to do and carried out.

Today was a crazy day. After the girls got off to school, I cleaned up around the house--dishes, started some laundry, picked up, etc. Then I hurried and got ready. It's early release today and tomorrow because of parent teacher conferences, so I had to be back in time for pick up. So I picked them up and we headed home. We had lunch, they played outside for a bit, we colored and Eliza gave me a little art lesson on how to draw these cute little people that she draws. My mom came over after lunch. She had Dallin and Abby with her as she picked them up after school. We loaded up and went back to the school to the book fair. The kids had fun picking out books. I always loved the book fair when I was little and my girls seems to love it, too. This afternoon, Eliza ended up going home with my mom and Abby and I took the rest of my girls along with Dallin. They all had fun playing outside most of the afternoon.

This afternoon I had Eliza and Libby's parent teacher conferences. They are both doing great. I was so pleased with what their teachers had to say. Libby's teacher said she is doing wonderfully in school--reading and writing, etc. She says she is a good participator in class, so I was happy about that! She is respectful of her peers and teachers and sweet and bright. Eliza is also doing well academically and her teacher just raved about her. She said she has a heart of gold and if she every has a girl, she wants her to be like Eliza. That makes a mother's heart smile!

Tonight I had a stake leadership training meeting. We all met together at the beginning and a speaker spoke about the Holy Ghost. It was such a great talk and was very inspiring. She spoke about the various roles of the Holy Ghost and how to hear it more in your life. She shared several experiences from her life the illustrated the different things she spoke about. From there, we separated into our auxiliaries. Our theme for the YW part was Examples of Joy. Each member of the presidency talked about being an example of joy in various areas of our life: Joy in Christ, Joy in Covenants and Joy in Family. I thought they all did an incredible job. They talked about being examples of joy in those areas and thus being an example to the young women. So inspiring, too. The dessert tray was well liked, too!

I am happy to say I have almost survived my busy week! I have been extremely tired though, so I think it's catching up to me! LOL. If I sit down, before I know it, I'm dozing!!!

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Tuesday

Today was a little different than expected. I was supposed to have a presidency meeting this morning at my house, but one of the ladies couldn't make it so we ended up canceling it. So after getting ready, we went to Sweets Unlimited to order some treats for our leadership training meeting we have on Thursday night. We had planned to do refreshments, but the week is so busy for all of us, so I suggested we just order them. The lady who owns the store is a friend of my mom and did my wedding cake, etc. I met my mom there and spur of the moment we decided to head to Savers (trying to find Eliza's costume) and Party City. After that we came home and Ellie went to a neighbors for a little play date.

After school I picked up the girls and was going to take them to the book fair to pick out a book. We got to the library but it was closed! I think we'll try again on Thursday. Bummer!

When we got home it was play time until dinner. My friend Jenny brought us dinner tonight. As part of a gift she gave me for my baby shower, she gave me a "gift certificate" to bring two dinners three and four weeks after the baby was born. Tonight was the first one. It was yum and so nice not to have to worry about dinner today! Brian didn't end up having his bishopric meeting again, so we went on a walk as a family and I helped a little with bed before heading off to a meeting. I found out tonight that that meeting will be changed and will just be after our monthly stake youth council meeting. So that will make it easier to just have to stay after that instead of being out another night.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Pictures

I've downloaded some pictures (finally) that I've taken over the past couple weeks...

Hattie doesn't ask too much to hold Ruby, but she loves to when she gets a chance.
Ellie is a great helper with Ruby. She loves to hold her and will just cuddle and love on her, call her "darlin'", etc.
One time we checked on Ruby when she was in her room in her swing and she was curled up in a little ball!

This was Hattie playing with her new doll and all the accessories. They play with them everyday!

Today we waited around for the repairman to come look at our dishwasher. The dishes haven't been getting dry, so any time I run them through, I always have to dry them by hand or set them out on the counter to dry. He said the board on the front is probably bad and we also need to get new drawers in there, so it's probably going to mean getting a new one. Ugh. Before picking up Eliza and Libby from school, we stopped at Target for a couple things. After school I was kind of tied down as I had to feed Ruby, so we went out back and Ellie and Hattie played and I played with Libby. We took turns writing sentences on her white board that we made up and we played several games of Hangman. That was fun--she is really good at that game. Maybe we'll have to get her on Wheel of Fortune.

Tonight we had family home evening--I did a lesson about testimonies. Every one but one unnamed person shared their testimony at the end. We finished off with cake for treats.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Church

This morning started out early. I was up at 4:30 or so feeding Ruby, then Brian's alarm went off so he could get to his bishopric meeting. I got back to sleep only to be woken up by Hattie a little after 6. So I got up and started getting ready for church. A while later, everyone was up and I was hurrying everyone along so we could make it to church on time. I'm happy to report that we did. It was hectic for sure. We ended up having to sit in the hard chairs though. Brian forgot to save us seats, so we were banished to the back. We survived Sacrament meeting. Chrystalyn held Ruby most of the time and I kept Hattie and Ellie busy. Ruby ate right before church around 8 and she had a bottle during sacrament! I can't figure out if she is not getting enough when I feed her or if it's just not filling enough for her. Argh!

Church went well, though. Ruby slept most of the time and kept sleeping even after we got home. After church we did various things to pass the time. A couple young women came over to watch my girls while I went to another ward for a YW visit and Brian was still doing stuff at church. We all got back home and had dinner. I heated up one of our frozen meals--manicotti. It was great! Everyone liked it and ate it--even Libby! After scarfing down dinner, Eliza and I were off. I had a youth council meeting and Eliza had practice for the stake musical. I saw a little of the rehearsal and it's going to be an amazing play and I think very touching about the pioneers.

Today was just the start of a very busy week. Hope I can make it through!

Unrelated

This is totally unrelated to anything baby, but I went to Wal-Mart yesterday to price match some mac&cheese. It was on sale at Safeway for $.34 a box, which is the cheapest I've seen it. Wal-Mart was totally out, so I figured I'd stop at Target since they just starting getting with it and will ad match. I loaded up my cart with 45 boxes (the "team member" on that isle asked if I was feeding an army) and went to the checkout. I told her I wanted to ad-match and that I might need to do three transactions because I had so many. She had to call someone over since she didn't seem to know how to adjust the price. That lady told me they would do it "this time" but for the future she told me they don't price match when you have to have a club card. So I had to clarify, "So you're saying if you have to have a club card at a store, you don't ad match with them? So Safeway, Frys and Bashas are out?!?" She said yes! They only ad match with Alberstons. That's so silly. What's the point of that??? Hardly seems worth it and doesn't make sense. Glad I got my mac&cheese though.

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Week

I need to be better about updating since I can't really remember what I've been doing. Ruby is doing well and sleeping pretty well, so I can't complain about that. I weighed her a couple days ago (using my bread scale LOL) and she was 7.5.). My other girls are having a bit of a hard time with things--not sure if it's a new baby at home or just bad timing with a difficult stage, but hopefully we can get over them sooner rather than later.

I seriously can't think of anything else to write. My visiting teachers came by this week. I went to another ward's young women in excellence for one of our stake visits. It was a cute "Purse-uit of Excellence" theme. Libby and Eliza went to a b-day party last night and Libby went to another one tonight. It was a Halloween theme birthday party and you were supposed to wear a costume. After looking through our costume box and giving her several ideas, she decided to be a "hula girl." It started with her going to wear a lei and a flower in her hair and she ended up wearing a shirt with a big flower on the front, shorts and a flip flop necklace we got for her in Hawaii. Funny girl that she really wouldn't dress up. We weren't surprised.

Brian went on a campout with the scouts last night. I survived. I was a little nervous, but I made it through. Eliza had a soccer game this morning. She played well and had some good passes. Eliza played at a friend's house after. Ellie, Libby and Hattie played school when we got home for a while. Libby makes a good teacher! It's my goal this week to update more, so I can have something a little more worthwhile to write!

Sunday, October 11, 2009

Photo Shoot

This past week, Terri came over and took pictures of Ruby. Here are some she sent me. Can't wait to see the rest!



Behind

I didn't realize how far behind I am. I think I have a valid excuse though! I had quite a bit of help this past week so that was nice. My mom came three of the days and Brian's mom helped out on the other two. Thank you! It was so nice to have that help. One day that my mom had them, they got to pick out their own baby doll at Target. They spent the rest of the day making pillows and beds for them. My mom made them little bags for a diaper bag and they cut fleece for a receiving blanket and flannel for burp cloths and baby wipes. They spent all day playing with that and changing diapers. It has provided much entertainment for them this week. On Thursday--I am not sure what we were thinking--but we ventured out to Hobby Lobby. There are some fabric flowers that I want to make to put on headbands, so we went looking for that stuff and a few other things my mom needed. It actually wasn't too bad and we survived.

This week was a little weird in that I had Libby home sick on Monday and Eliza was home on Tuesday and Wednesday. Happily no one else got sick and I think we are back healthy now. On Monday, Ruby had her first appointment. We went to the other office this time because we are going to start seeing my neighbor who is a pediatrician. A month or so ago, I was out front and his wife came over to chat and she mentioned that her husband had said that if we wanted to see him, he wouldn't balance bill us--he would just take whatever our insurance covered. I was nearly speechless. With a few kids, this will be a huge blessing--not having to pay anything at the pediatrician's office. So it's a little further, but it'll be worth it in the end. Anyway...I took Ruby to her appt. and she was 7 pounds. I told him my theory in that I don't think she really weighed 8.1 when she was born. He thinks that might be the case. And she was shorter than she was in the hospital. I think baby's heights are all relative, too, since they squirm around and it's hard to get an accurate measurement. But he said she looked good...no complaints. He had them do her 2nd PKU test so we didn't have to go back at 2 weeks.

Let's see...what else. I enjoyed watching conference last weekend. Some of my favorite talks were Elder Bednar, Elder Watson, Henry B. Eyring, President Monson's one about service, and Elder Holland's. His was SO powerful.

Eliza started soccer again. She played last week and yesterday. She scored a goal in her first game, so that was fun for her. Yesterday evening was our ward's youth standard's night. It was out at the White Tanks and Brian had to go, but I got to join him. It was a bit crazy getting everyone where they needed to be. Eliza went to a birthday party, Ellie and Libby spent the afternoon/evening with my parents and I got a babysitter for Hattie. Ruby came with me. First they had dinner--the bishopric BBQ'd burgers and chicken. Then they had the program. I thought it turned out great and was a great experience for the kids. Of course, Ruby slept all the way out there and through dinner, but right when the program started, she started crying! So I hurried to the car and sat in there and fed her. So I missed most of it, but here is the gist of what they did. Someone started by talking about the Anti-Nephi-Lehis and how they buried their weapons of war. Then they had several of the youth talk about each one of the standards and how its opposite can be a weapon that they can bury if it's a weakness in their life. So they could bury the sword or weapon of disobedience or immorality or contention. Then that youth had a wooden sword with that word written on it. At the end of their talk, they threw the weapon in the fire. Then each of the youth that were there got their own wooden sword and they wrote on a little slip of paper that was attached one of their "weapons" (or one of the standards they are struggling with) and then they each threw it in the fire symbolic that they would bury that weapon and not pick it up again. Brian had to speak a minute before they put their weapons in the fire and he talked about how fire can purify and cleanse and how by getting rid of those things in their lives how they can be purified, too. Then he had them look at the city lights behind them. Where we were situated, you had a great view of the city lights. And he talked about how they can be a city set on a hill and how if the fire were big enough, all those lights or people, could see them and would wonder what that light was. When they put their weapons in the fire, of course it got bigger, and it was so neat to think of them as an example to the world. The night ended with cobbler, then we came home. It was a great standards night and one that hopefully the kids will remember.

Thursday, October 08, 2009

Coming Home







A few days before I had Ruby, they started enforcing a no one under 12 allowed to visit policy. Before, siblings could come visit if you had a new baby, so my girls had been looking forward to visiting. When they called me the morning of my induction, they told me of the new policy. I was so sad and I knew my girls would be, too, knowing they couldn't see me or the new baby until we got home. So the Thursday we got home was a big day. It was early release for my girls at school, so Brian and I got home from the hospital around noon, then he went to pick up Ellie and Hattie from Terri's and Eliza and Libby from Chrystalyn. When they got home it was a rush to see Ruby. They loved looking at her and holding her.

I am hoping the newness wears off a little though--and I think it is a little bit--but at first Eliza and Libby argued over who was holding her and for how long, etc. It was been a hard transition with that! And we are having to teach what is helpful and what is not. They think Ruby should be up all the time and not sleep! Heaven forbid she take a nap or take a nap in her crib! And the other thing is learning how to just hold her. Eliza and Libby like to keep her in the same position for two seconds, then put her on their shoulder or on their legs, etc. It's frustrating!!! But I'm sure we'll get over that soon.